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This is the second video by Dr Janet Hall, sex therapist and clinical psychologist. In the first video Dr Jan was disappointed in some aspects of the Fifty Shades plot and writing.
In this video Dr Jan appreciates why it is such a phenomenal success!
The main character Christian Grey is an unreasonable fantasy figure – a 27 year-old suave billionaire.
…So many of those running around these days, right?
But this is the important part – E.L.James has sold over 100 million books… so …
Something IMPORTANT and URGENT is going on….
Is it that women want to be undergo S&M violent sex, get whipped and chained?
Of course not!
It IS that Anastasia, the lead character opened – and softened – a closed man’s heart in the process.
Which is every woman’s fantasy.
And honestly, one of the best things a woman can do for a man-
Get the woman to open his heart!
PS. If you want to see the first video –
Are you ready to discover how to use seductive fantasies to ‘fire up’ your sex life?
How do you evaluate your current use of fantasies? Would you like to expand your repertoire?
Unless you live under a rock you know that this Saturday, Valentines Day, is the launch of the 50 Shades of Grey Movie.
Please let me know if you see it and what your reaction is and I will collate the results.
Meanwhile, please look at this video where I talk about the shady side of the books –
I mean who says “Holy Cow”?
Stay tuned for my next video on the good features of the story!
Whatever you do – be loving to everyone on Valentines – it’s not just for romance!
- Why you should never share your age (she has a very good reason for this and it’s not what you think).
- The difference between your chronological vs biological age (the good news is you can turn back your biological age!)
- How to be an “outlier” that lives a longer and healthier life.
- The three commonalities that all centenarians have in common that let them live past 100 with life and vibrancy.
- The “nun study” about dementia that is showing that the symptoms for dementia (and many other illnesses) aren’t as accurate as we think (and how big a role our belief systems actually play in this)
- Why you need to guard your mind vigilantly when receiving a “diagnosis” because of the effect it alone has on your health.
- Any much more!
Here is a provocative article: X is for X-Rated, which offers some surprisingly fresh insights about the impact of pornography use on relationships with self and partners.
The writer, Zach Brittle, a couples therapist,deconstructs the myths perpetuated by pornography use: the myth of perfection, the myth of ease, the myth of privacy and the myth of escape .
To further support and illustrate the points he presents, he adds some astute quotes by his mentor, marriage therapist Dr. John Gottman, such as this one:
“even non-compulsive use of [pornographic] images can damage a committed relationship.” He expands, saying, “most porn encourages steps that can lead to betrayal,” including the loss of emotional connection, secret keeping, negative comparisons, and dismissing the partner as unattractive and, worse, unworthy.”
After giving readers considerable motivations to examine their own personal relationship with pornography, the author then closes his article by self-disclosing his own history with pornography.
To read more… CLICK HERE
Once you’re through reading, I’d love to know:
What speaks most to you in his article? Why?
If you write me an email to firstname.lastname@example.org I will let you have my mp entitled:
Stop Using Pornography: Hypnosis Can Help You Quit Your Addiction To Pornography
For Half price- only $4.95